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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/FangwolfNate on 2024-08-20 01:25:26+00:00.

This actually just happened. Long time lurker first time posting. For some background I recently took a job in a different state. I moved out here in Apr while my wife stayed back with our child

About 2 weeks ago it finally came time for them to join me out here. I was excited, beyond stoked. We just bought this beautiful new house. My family came out to help with unpacking. We didn’t finish but got a lot done.

This last week I could tell something has been off. I had been asking if everything is alright and have been getting “I’m fine” or “I’m just tired” this whole time until tonight.

I mentioned to her tonight that it feels like she wants nothing to do with me. Her reply was that she wasnt really wanting anything to do with anyone. I got kinda upset at this because she has been on her phone at all times talking to everybody but me and i called her on it. She finally told me she hasn’t been happy for awhile. That she didn’t want to move here even though she encouraged me to take this job. I brought that up and her response was that I was always saying that she’s never being supportive of me, and that this was her way of being supportive.

Her answer broke me tonight. I don’t know what to do. I had all this happiness and excitement for this new chapter and this answer has just crushed my spirits.

TLDR: pushed my wife to open up and got a devastating answer.