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The original was posted on /r/autism by /u/illlabita on 2024-11-08 13:41:08+00:00.


That you are abusive to some extent, or if they say that you are selfish, or narcissistic or self-centred or someone who doesn’t care about there friends…or anything that you never thought of yourself as. My brain starts questioning myself - what if I am abusive and i don’t know because which abusive person would consider themselves abusive? It’s a self-harming kind of thought. But i don’t want to be consciously abusive towards anyone. I don’t think that’s my intention. But time and again I have been accused of been something or the other that would make me question myself and convince myself that I am a bad person to others. Which would lead me to really bad places mentally, hurts my self-image, my self-esteem.

I wanted to know if I am the only one doing this? Because a lot of these things said to me are probably on account of my autism.