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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Bright-Equal-2422 on 2024-11-09 05:35:20+00:00.

Please read previous post so I don’t have to repeat the whole thing. TW: sexual harassment.

I didn’t expect to be updating again, I thought that everything had ended when my parents blocked me, but no.

Since my last post, my parents still have me blocked, but only on social media. They have been calling me since and telling me that it’s up to me to make this right. That basically my entire family is mad at me for trying to destroy the family dynamics, that because I still haven’t “confronted” Dumbo, they all think that I am lying and blew what could have been a simply awkward moment into a big deal so that I could have a proper reason to move out and be “independent”.

According to them, unless I speak to Dumbo face to face I will have proven their theory of simply lying to get out of the house with anyone questioning it. They have made it clear that they think I have fucked up by bringing this to light and if I choose not to confront Dumbo they will proceed to have me blocked and will have me marked as a liar.

Oh my god, the pressure I have been under to speak to this man has been making me sick at this point. Yes, I could simply block my parents on everything as well, but that wouldn’t stop them from showing up to my house, and I’m too much of a coward to do so anyway. Even though I’m freaking out, I have decided to talk to Dumbo tonight once I get the courage to do so, just to get my parents off my back, because I can’t handle another phone call with them where they accuse me of being a liar.

Deep down I know I didn’t fuck up by telling my family about Dumbo harassing me, but I swear to God that if i had known everything that was to come out of this I would have simply moved out and kept my mouth shut. Any advice is needed and I deeply appreciate those that personally messaged to check up on me after my first post.

TL;DR: I’ve fucked up by giving the impression that I am a liar after confessing that my cousin’s husband harassed me.