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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/Inevitable_Salad9667 on 2025-01-20 19:36:33+00:00.

Hi everyone, I’m 8 days postpartum and I’m always dreading my midwives visits. Can I change midwives? She undermines me constantly, had a dig at me because I’m choosing to exclusively pump, rambles on that baby isn’t eating enough (she’s fed on demand but doesn’t go longer than 3 hours without a feed) and she’ll have the 50ml, burped, changed nappy and offered more but doesn’t want it. It’s like she’s looking for things to fault me on. Is it too late to find someone else to do babys cares? The midwife makes me feel like absolute crap about myself