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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ThrowRaLoveCats on 2023-08-31 06:05:42.

And that I should; lose weight, grow out my hair, make my voice cuter, act “cute and bubbly” all the time, wear high heels everywhere and wear makeup more around the house etc etc.

I was consciously doing all those things for him over the course of our 1yr relationship. I broke down last night when came I home from gym, he scans me up and down and asks me how my diets going in a judgemental tone.

I just couldn’t stand it, it’s one laundry list after the next. I cry and complain while he justifies as him wanting what’s best for me and to improve, but I’m so sick of it. It’s endless and I hate it.

You’d think I was putting all this effort in to date some billionaire but really he’s just an average guy that I carry in the relationship financially, socially and in apperance.

Just hate how sad this made me since I’ve realised. I just want to be loved for who I am.