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The original was posted on /r/asoneafterinfidelity by /u/black_dog_21 on 2023-07-04 12:55:46+00:00.

And if so, did you ever agree to put it back on again? Was it the same ring or did you exchange new rings?

I have worn my original wedding ring since D-Day and many times have felt uncomfortable wearing it. I see it as a symbol of the broken promise she once made me, but kept it on at the plea of my WW. I’m at a point where I am pushing myself to move forward by letting go of the past tainted relationship. I’m taking the mindset of starting a new relationship with my wife, and part of this includes removing this symbol of a broken promise.

My wife is very hurt, but tries to somewhat understand. An option we are discussing is melting down my old ring and creating a new one with a new design, to go with new vows. I’m open to this, and I feel I can accept this, and I we are working to get an emotional reconnection so I can get married to her all over again.

Curious as to how others have navigated this.