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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/[deleted] on 2023-07-28 06:19:02.

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I feel a bit silly coming here but oh well, if it can help

My (27F) husband (34M) and I are visiting his family and there’s a beach near where we’re staying.

My husband has this habit of always forgetting his swim short for some reason. I’d admit that it might be because he doesn’t need it often lol.

Before we started packing, my husband asked me to remind him of taking his swim short because he was afraid he’d forget it.

So thats what I did, while we were packing I told him at least 5 times to not forget his swim short, his answer was always “Yes, don’t worry”. Except that when we were about to leave, I saw that his swim short was still on the bed and here’s where I might be TA: I didn’t take it because I already warned him many times and he didn’t listen.

When we arrived, his family wanted to go to the beach and we agreed. But when my husband searched for his swim short, it wasn’t there. He asked if I knew where it was and I replied yes, it’s on the bed at home.

My husband freaked out and told me that I was an asshole for not taking it even though I saw it on the bed and knew he would forget it. His father said that he’ll land him one of his as he has 3 of them but my husband shook his head and refused to even go to the beach.

It’s been 3 days and he refuses to go out anywhere, he’s saying that I ruined his vacation and won’t do any activities with his family or me.

AITA?

Wanna add that only his vacation has been “ruined”, me and his family are still doing activities and having lot of fun and laughs