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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/homewrong44 on 2023-08-03 20:37:55.

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My (21f) sister (32f) has been married to her husband 33m for 8 years. They already have 6 kids total, the last one born 5 months ago.

Yesterday, my sister had announced that she’s 3 months pregnant with twins and while everyone was congratulating her, I said out loud “oh my god, again?? Can’t your stupid husband leave you alone??” I didn’t mean to say it out loud, but it slipped out and my sister looked at me angrily and literally dragged me into another room and asked “Why tf did you say that?”

I told her that she and her husband have been pregnant every year for the last 8 years and that she needs to take a break. I was worried about her having so many babies in such a short time and I didn’t want anything bad happening to her.

She then said “How about YOU leave us alone and worry about your own shit? This is MY life, so f*ck off”. My mother told me that I should apologize for being rude but I told her that I won’t apologize for showing concern.

But now I just can’t help thinking that maybe I was being an asshole and sticking my nose into other people’s business. I was just worried but maybe I was being a jerk.

AITA?