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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Old-Pear9539 on 2023-08-22 21:42:01.


So i (28m) used to take care of both my grandparents from the time i was roughly 19 my grandparents health started to go downhill and none of my 7 uncles or my mom really wanted to help out much so i ended up moving back in with them to help out as much as i could. My grandpa was in a wheelchair and my grandma had just gone into remission from cancer. Around 2020 when Covid started to become a serious concern my grandma was seriously wondering what would happen if her or my grandpa died because they would not be able to live in their house that they had owned since around the mid 1960s, it is according to my grandma, an old governors mansion from the 1800s it has 10 bedroom 5 bathrooms on 15 acres of land when they bought it it needed a ton of work and they have spent the last 60 years making it a wonderful home and both wanted to die in that house they had raised all their children in that house and even some grandchildren it is the family hub everyone had grown up here. after one bad health scare with my grandpa my grandma realized that if she lost him she would no longer be able to afford the house with losing half of her income. So i offered to buy the house from them, i have a fairly high paying job for my area and because i had been living there rent free while taking care of them i had quite a large saving, originally i told her i would just give her the money or help her out but she didnt want charity so she and my grandpa sold me the house for $90,000 (roughly 10% of the properties value) and i would let her live there until she died (which of course i would) because they knew i would keep the house in the family and most of my Uncles and my mom just wanted to sell it for a quick buck (only 1 uncle, josh, knew about them selling me the house and didnt mind at all because me and him had almost exclusively done all the maintenance or house work on it for years).

Unfortunately my grandpa died in april 2021, and after that my grandma’s youngest sister moved in to spend time with her because they were both widows and could emotionally support each other, so i took advantage of the covid interest rates and bought another house about 10 mins away so i could still be close by if she needed anything but have my own freedoms. Sadly last week my grandma passed away and after the funeral the whole family gathered for her will reading, my Uncles all got nice items, my uncle josh got my grandpas Old 1940-1950s Ford truck, my mom got all my grandma jewelry, i got nothing (because I already got the house), the reading ended. All of my relatives were confused about the house and asked the lawyer to which she said the house was already sold. Well it didnt take long to for them to put 2 and 2 together and i am now getting harassed by most of my family saying i fucked them and they need the money from the sale of the house and some have even threatened to sue me if i dont sell the house and give them their rightful inheritance.

So aita for “screwing” out of their inheritance