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Original BORU posted by me January 9, 2023

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Mood Spoiler: Starts out pretty bleak, ends on a positive note

TIFU by getting fired because i cried. Aug 20, 2021

Ok so this happened about two hours ago. First of all, a little backstory:

I’m a 25 years old male who lives in Iran which is a very shitty country to live or to be born in. Everything here sucks and is incredibly hard, including finding a job. I have been unemployed since Covid hit my country and just recently i managed to finally find a job. Covid is still raging here, since they won’t vaccinate us, so most times we work from home.

I was dating this girl for about 9 months, which i know isn’t a long time but since I’m leaving the country in a few months forever, i really invested myself into this relationship cause we planned to leave together and everything was going so smoothly. My anxiety was practically gone and i was really happy after a really long life of being depressed.

Yesterday, out of nowhere she breaks up with me and tells me that she isn’t feeling the relationship anymore and that I’m a really good guy and she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings in the long run. Which destroys me but i understand. I tell her to give us a another chance and she says no, it’s better this way. She’s a very honest person so i believe her and leave. I accept the outcome even tho i immediately start crying.

Anyway, today im still pretty bummed out but i gotta go to the office for a couple of hours and my boss is there to help me which is a big relief since i really didn’t feel like working. I take a smoke break and get reminded of some memories and i start crying a little bit. I go back upstairs and my boss immediately finds out that I’ve been crying and insists on me telling him what happened, which i do.

He looks me dead in the eyes and says “Wow, you were crying over that? Such a weak person, i don’t think you are a good fit for the compony if that’s the stuff you are worried about. I think you should leave” at this point i start laughing, cause this is clearly a joke right? right? Wrong. He looked at me like im insane and asked me to leave immediately. So i pack up my stuff and do as im told.

Yesterday i had a girlfriend whom i loved and a job and a good future ahead of me. Now im just a guy who has to leave his country and everyone he loves because he was born in one of the worst places possible and he’s doing it completely alone and broken. Honestly maybe boys should not cry.

TL;DR: My girlfriend broke up with me. I opened up to my boss and he thought i was weak so he fired me.

EDIT: Wow, you guys made my day a million times better!!! I’d give you all hugs and golds if internationally usable credit cards where a thing here and i could buy Reddit coins. But since that’s not possible, I’ll send all my love.

EDIT2: Holyshit, This blew up!!! You guys are amazing!!! Thanks for all the awards and kind words. I have learned so much by just reading your replies and i have definitely gained a new perspective on my life. I will cherish your words forever. Also I’m sorry if i can’t reply to all your kind comments. I will try my best to reply to as many as i can. Also also, for people who ask, I’m moving to Germany on a school scholarship and will definitely update you all beautiful people. Much love to all of you.

deleted user:

Not a fuckup…it provided you with a direction your life should not be going (with that girl nor that company of employment).  This is a great step in the right direction…a direction that may seem invisible right now, but you will get there just by following through with your plan.  This “fuckup” as you called it, is actually cleaning things up for you so you can leave Iran without anything tying you down or holding you back.

Unfiltered_America:

A few months ago I had an employee hit a really rough patch with his lady. He called me up in the middle of the night asking if I could pick him up because he had to leave his house. This guy is tough, spent time in prison, tattoos from head to toe, left his past behind and has become an honest person bettering himself every day… when I picked him up, I took him over to the bar I run, sat him down with a big glass of water and he cried. He cried hard, loud, painful, sobbing, snot bubbles out the nose cry. I sat and listened, refilled his water and listened more. His mom had died the month before from covid and it was taking its toll on his relationship since his whole extended family all shared the same roof. I never thought less of this man, not even once because he showed that side of him to me. I made sure he got back home ok once he cried it out and calmed down and the next day he worked, he came in to my office and gave me a hug and said, “Bro, I’ve never had a boss like you man. You have no idea what that meant to me, I had noone else to call, thank you man. Bro, I love you for what you did.”

Tldr: I had bosses like yours, the taught me to be a better person.

Good luck on your journey.

TIFU by getting fired because i cried Update Dec 9, 2022

I was contemplating not making this update because it’s not the type of “it all worked out at the end update” but since I promised one, here you go.

Ok, when I created the original post, it was me shouting in the dark, and I didn’t expect it to blow up, but it did, and you guys helped me through a lot of my anxiety. A couple of people even stayed in touch, and I gave them updates here and there. I wish I could have told you things worked out and I’m happy in Germany starting a new life, but that didn’t happen. I will break this up into a timeline so it’s easy to follow.

Sep 2021: I found a job a month after I posted the original thread in a company based in the U.S. it was a remote job, and the CEO was Iranian. We were not documented, which is fine because most of the time, Iranian CEOs hire people outside of the U.S. to pay them way less. This happens a lot. The pay was about 160$ a month, and we had no benefits, but whatever, I was trying to save money to get out as soon as possible.

March 2022: I started applying for schools in Germany and was confident I would get in because a couple of years ago, my brother went through the same process and got in easily. I applied to 9 universities. A few rejected me because of my GPA, which is fair, and a few others accepted my application. Now at this time, my undergraduate degree isn’t ready because, in Iran, it takes a ridiculous amount of time and effort for you to get your degree.

May 2022: A small protest happens outside of my school in support of a girl who was sexually assaulted, but since the asshole who did that to her had a powerful dad, the girl got arrested and he didn’t face any consequences. Also since no news outlet covered it, we all gathered to support her. Long story short, I was arrested and expelled, which resulted in me not getting my diploma. Naturally, in a couple of months, the two schools that accepted my provisional application without my degree wanted my degree, and I couldn’t provide it, so understandably, they had to move forward with other applicants.

I also left my job because I realized we were being overworked for little to no money. Whenever we ask for a raise, they always find a way not to do it, and honestly, the CEO has promised every employee that he’d help them move to the U.S at some point, which is obviously a lie, and they just want us to work for them as much as we can until they can afford actual on-site employees.

Sep 2022: Protests break out, and I leave Iran for a neighboring country because it will not be safe for me since I’m fairly active on social media about the whole situation and a few thousand people follow me. Three days after I left, they showed up at my house back in Iran and demanded to arrest me, but luckily I wasn’t there. If I go back to Iran, I won’t make it past airport security.

For the past two months, I have been trying to find a job, but I haven’t been successful. I have a half-decent resume, but I keep getting rejected because of the country I’m in right now. I’m exhausted and out of options. I’m burning through my savings, and in a few weeks, I’m either going to have to be homeless or go back to Iran to get arrested. I’m in a really dark place and have little to no hope for what’s to come. I miss my friends and my family. I just wanted a normal life. I know I’m being pathetic, and I didn’t want to post this. I wanted to have something good happen so I could update you guys with happy news, but everything keeps getting worse. This will proba…

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