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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Bogiuethrowaway on 2023-09-10 18:07:03.

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Hello AITA, I had quite a night with some of my best friends over something I thought was innocent and even cute but apparently that has been bothering them for a long time. They were really cruel and I didn’t sleep at all so I’m asking here for some clarity.

Last night I went out with a group of guy friends, we went to a club and danced and drank but no one was really having any fun so we went to a diner. I wasn’t really hungry so I just ordered coffee. I’ve just always eaten off my guy friends’ plates so I did it last night. It wasn’t much, just a few fries, tomatoes, croutons…just small stuff.

As I was reaching for a French fry, my friend basically screened at me “will you fucking stop it!” It was so out of the blue I thought he was joking so I kept going for the fry and he said “I told you to stop, I was fucking serious.” I asked him if he was really mad. He said that I’ve pulled this “cutesey girl shit since I’ve known you and it’s annoying as shit, don’t ever touch my food again.” I asked if was serious and then my other guy friends piped and said basically how they were all sick of it too and it needs to stop.

That turned into a huge argument because I felt like they were teaming up on me. The bottom line is I got an Lyft home and my friendships may be over and I’m really upset.

AITA?