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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Catinthehat363 on 2023-09-11 12:24:02.

Me (25F) and my husband (26m) Leon are expecting twin girls in about a month! So for context, Leon says whatever is on his mind which is usually very sweet but sometimes disturbing and rude.

So me and Leon were discussing baby names and I asked him if we could name one of the girls Amelia. I love the name Amelia and always have. He said I sound so desperate and that I need to calm down. I had no idea where that came from, and I just looked at him with a confused face. He then said that I sometimes act like a child and beg way to much and that it’s annoying. Honestly it’s ironic because I never begged about anything because I grew up in a low income household. I told him that he’s being mean and that I didn’t even beg. He told me that the truth hurts and that I should deal with it and not act like a baby. I looked at him for a second and then I told him I wasn’t in the mood to talk anymore. He then said “See your acting like a baby and you just always have.” I turned around and said “Can’t you just shut up for once in your life? You talk and talk and you seem to have no filter. You want to talk about the truth then there you go.” I left the house and went to a cafe an hour away from my house. And I got so many calls from my husband saying that he’s sorry but he was just saying the truth. He said that we can name one of the twins Amelia and that he can choose the other name. I ignored everything he said and just kept ordering from the cafe. After a few hours I went home and Leon just kept giving me apologies but also adding the “it’s your fault” at the end of each of them. Im not sure what to do, AITA?