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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Acceptable_Energy_52 on 2023-09-14 10:48:22.
So I went to a strip club tonight with my friends and I didn’t feel anything. I wasn’t even turned on really. I mean the girls where definitely attractive but I just didn’t feel any kind of connection at all to them which I mean makes sense. I thought I’d be at least a little aroused but really I felt nothing at all. So I was wondering would the experience with causal sex be the same. I mean I want to experience sex but I just don’t think I’d enjoy it with just any girl. I have to be really into them as a person first and also find them physically attractive.
I can relate. I’ve been to a few strip clubs in my life, but while I definitely find naked women titillating, I didn’t feel any real arousal at the club. As for casual sex, I enjoyed and miss it. I’m a married man now, but spending time getting to know a someone new, inside and out, so-to-speak was the thrill of my dating years.