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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/ProfessionalBread870 on 2023-09-21 06:35:48.

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I (F27) have just started a new job a month ago, I work 5am-1.30pm Wed-Sat in a bakery ( though I usually stay to try and help out if I can). I make the scones, pick the bread and sort out th displays ECT.

I have a coworker who is MEANT to start at 6.30am and work to 4pm doing the Cakes, muffins ect, She does not because in her own words She doesn’t trust her husband to get the kids ready for school.

EVERY SINGLE DAY for the past month she complains about how she has too much to do and how she’ll be late home because it’s too much. And then tries to guilt me into staying longer to help her.

I finally got sick of it today (I was running on 3 hours sleep and my rotator cuff is playing up) I had an electrician coming at1.45pm so I had to leave at 1.30pm. When I told her this I started getting ‘Oh I’m gonna be here till like 5pm if I’m by myself’ and I snapped and told her ‘I DO NOT CARE! I’ve been here for 8hrs and if you wanted to finish on time…you should START ON TIME’ and clocked out

I feel a bit bad but I’m just over the guilt tripping and CONSTANT complaining about something she could fix

EDIT1: She starts at 9am 2 1/2hrs later than she should and usually finishes between 4.30-5pm…if she started when she should she would be out of there 4pm or earlier

EDIT2: I HAVE spoken to her multiple times in the last week about how I’m not able to stay late everyday and she needs to maybe start even a half hour earlier but she doesn’t seem to listen