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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Mountain_Nerve_3069 on 2023-10-03 11:47:44.

So there is this friend I’m traveling to Europe with, let’s call her C.

When we were booking accommodations, she was super strict on her budget and we ended up booking a bunch of cheapy studios.

I had a hard time sleeping in, and morning is the best time to call to my husband. So yesterday I woke up at 6, wrapped myself in a blanket and went outside of the Airbnb to the staircase landing at 6:30 to make the call.

I was trying to chat in low voice, wasn’t laughing loudly, nothing like that. Finished the call and snuck back into the Airbnb.

And before I left I turned the light on in the bathroom, so I have some light when I come back. It wasn’t shining into her eyes and I thought I was mindful and didn’t turn the hallway light or the living room light…

This morning she wasn’t talking to me and decided to go explore by herself because I’m so inconsiderate and selfish for walking up so early and opening the door, and that she could hear me talking outside of the Airbnb.

She suggested I don’t turn any light on, and better go to a coffee shop if I wake up before her.

Am I the asshole?