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The original was posted on /r/asoneafterinfidelity by /u/dolemiteX on 2023-10-03 14:57:52.

So long story short, DDay 1 was 2 years ago. DDay 2 was just under a year ago. As of yesterday, I discovered that they have started talking again, sort of.

At the beginning of september, I noticed a change in her attitude and red flags galore. I did a bit of spying and discovered a short email string between the two. Apparently she had sent the AP pictures of her sister’s vacation and the talk proceeded from there. It is apparent that the AP was caught off guard, but as things go with infidelity, it took all of two seconds for the AP to start laying on the charm, the I love you and always will, etc. My WW responded with how great of a man he was and how he fullfilled her in every way. She didn’t say she loved him, just that she wished she could have been the one to give him what he needed and deserved. The very next response in the email string was him telling her goodbye and that he would always love her and be there for her, and that he didn’t know if his current relationship was going to work out.

This was all off to me as it feels like there was a phone call or something in-between the 2nd and 3rd messages.

Anywhoo, they haven’t emailed or texted since that I can find,nir can I find any call logs. I am deeply hurt by how she feels about him, but I also feel like there was some closure for them as well. Maybe I am just hoping on a prayer. I don’t know what to do or how to feel, and if anyone has been in something like this, any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.