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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Ok-Payment3034 on 2023-10-03 22:27:34.

Yesterdaywhile buzzed , my wife (35) and I (37) did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a MMF threesome, with a neighbor.

We picked a neighbor because we thought the chances of a repeat performance were less likely. It took a while of talking to get him ( 25 ) to try it too.

Anyhow, to be honest, we all really liked it So what’s the problem ?

She was going down on me, he slowly worked on inserting in her anus. I thought something was up because the pace slowed, and she stopped moaning and starting making grunting sounds ( the same kind of sounds you make after dropping a deuce ) but I just didn’t know exactly what he was doing behind her.

Well it hit me when we changed positions and she went to mount him in a reverse cowgirl and I saw him inserting in her anus.

My problem is I have always wanted to have anal sex with her and never have been afforded the opportunity, she always said " No " and

yet there he was taking her anal virginity ( without even asking her first ) and having at it throughout the whole threesome. I feel something has been taken from me and I can never look at her the same.

I talked to her about this afterwards and she had apologized saying she " got carried away and went with the flow of things "

I know it took two to tango, in this case three, but I’d think it would have been understood that our “guest” would at least have the same guidelines as her husband, or less.

Didn’t know I needed to write up a contract covering the rules.

I know I carry a certain portion of the blame here, but how do I move forward?