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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Specialist_Cap6247 on 2023-10-03 23:23:07.

Almost 4 year relationship. Partner has “no desire” for me, claims I’m insanely attractive,deep in love, is outwardly affectionate in all other aspects ect ect…but in the bedroom desire is 0.

I’m a very sexual person with a high libido. I’d go daily if I could. Sex is fun, feels good, and is even better when it’s with someone you love and trust completely. We average once a month at most.

Not married, but right now this is my forever person. He has no desire to fix the problem so it’s a take it or leave it type situation. I don’t intend to leave, I can get myself off, I just miss feeling desired and my self esteem has taken a hit. Is this relationship doomed?