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The original was posted on /r/sugarlifestyleforum by /u/Charming-Eye-1309 on 2023-10-03 15:58:44.

A week ago I visited my great Aunt in another state, and my parents were there to visit her as well. She lives in a pretty average sized town, not really a city, but something that definitely seems like a small town when compared to Chicago and New York.

After my aunt and mother went to bed, my dad and I still weren’t tired so we figured we’d go out and see what’s happening in town. On a Friday night downtown was depressingly vacant and about all that was open was one fairly small college bar. (Why the whole town decided to close everything at 8, I’ll never know)

So my dad and I decided to have a few drinks at the bar. There was a dance floor, it was fairly vacant, so we just sat at one of the tables and talked for a few hours.

Throughout the night, two separate guys came up to me to check on me. One was an employee of the bar who asked if everything was alright, one was some random other college kid who did a thoroughly confusing bit where he pretended to be my dad’s son. When I sarcastically said “Dad you didn’t tell me I had another brother” he went “Ohhh okay so that’s your dad. I just wanted to make sure” and left.

I just thought it was a little funny because when I was an SB I initially didn’t like PDA because I assumed that was the thing that made people realize I was an SB, turns out that the second anyone sees a young woman with an older man they are Already assuming that… which is a little silly. Can’t say I’ve ever been to a sugar date that consisted of showing up to a trashy college dive bar, sitting down at a table and chatting about politics, the economy, and Batman for a few hours, and then leaving.

Has anyone had someone ‘check on them’ when out with an actual SD? Maybe it’s because I’ve only gone out with SDs in big cities that people haven’t cared, but it was irritating and amusing to watch well meaning small city people make wildly incorrect assumptions when I was out with my literal father.