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The original was posted on /r/asoneafterinfidelity by /u/chasingcharliee on 2023-10-04 13:56:26.

Am I wrong for having decided months ago we will never go to any of the places that she took her affair partner? For context this is a cocktail bar where we went on our first date, have had multiple birthdays and celebrations there and is walking distance from our house. She took her affair partner there, and was apparently convinced that eventually I’d get over it and decide to go there with her again. I said how disrespectful I found that assumption and reconfirmed that I would never go there. Ever. Again. Am I wrong? Should I just get over it? There is another special place to us, a waterfall JUST around the corner from our house, which she also took her AP to. Again I said I’ll never go there again. It means we have to avoid the place when walking our dog. Am I wrong?