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The original was posted on /r/detrans by /u/Bicycle6844 on 2023-10-04 21:39:10.

So I used to live in a small, affluent ski town in Colorado. This was back before I was trans, but I was questioning, I was I a support group with kids from various neighboring towns. In the next town over, a situation happened at the local high school with one of the kids who moved there a year earlier from a large southern city. This kid presented as male, male name, seemingly was a bio male. The kid was trans and the school knew and kept it a secret. This person starting dating a straight female student. A year later, after various low level intimate interactions, they boy was outed as being trans. They straight girlfriend was horrified and the parents got into an uproar.

The trans kid’s position was that they were just doing what was best for them and didn’t need to tell the girlfriend anything about their past.

The girlfriend and her parents sort of went crazy and accused the school, etc of helping cover up a scheme to get their daughter in a “gay” relationship. Clearly they were conservative straight people, not really the norm in that community.

Who do you think is at fault here? It ended up being a bad situation all around.