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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/smokeythegirlbear on 2023-10-05 06:01:59.

My ex came into my office and tried to have a conversation with me about a fight the other day but he got worked up and would not stop yelling at me. I never raised my voice and I told him to get out that I’m not talking to him like this.

He kept yelling at me and blocked the door way. I got up to close the door and he didn’t let me at first and then conceded. Even when I closed the door he kept yelling and berating me and hit a wall.

When he gets angry like this it makes really scared. Like my body physically feels my fight or flight kicking in.

He doesn’t physically hurt me or make threats but it makes me scared because I feel like if hewanted to he could escalate it.

Anyways it’s happened on several occasions and so I told him to stop yelling or I’ll call the cops. He kept yelling and I called 911.

He’s arguing with me about how I’m overreacting. I don’t think I am but maybe because he didn’t make threats and he did eventually get out of my office maybe he has a point? But at the end of the day he was scaring me so I’m not sure

Growing up my dad and brother would get angry like this and WOULD get violent with me so I am sensitive to anger and yelling.