This is an automated archive made by the Lemmit Bot.

The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Porkypineapple on 2023-10-05 13:40:29.

I (30f) have had a friend (30f) for 10 years who currently cosleeps with her husband and child(ren). Cosleeping in this case means her, her husband, and their two kids all sleep in the same king size bed. She shared that back when baby 1 was a newborn, her and her husband would sneakily have sex when the baby was asleep in the bed with them. I found it odd, but the baby was super tiny so I didn’t think much more into it. Fast forward to present day, and the couple has that same baby (obviously) who is now two years old, and also a less-than-one-year old that all sleep together in the same bed. She shared that her and her husband are still having “sneaky” sex with the two kids/babies in bed with them when they’re asleep. I told her I found that weird and inappropriate. They have furnished bedrooms for each of their children so space isn’t an issue. She was very offended and said that since I don’t have children I don’t have room to judge. She knows I have had a year+ of fertility issues and also said it’s a good thing I can’t have kids because I’d be a shitty mom anyway.

Last weekend she had our typical group of friends over to her house and didn’t invite me. I know this because it was plastered all over social media. When I asked her if we were cool she said she sent the invite to all of us in a Snapchat and that I must not have seen it, but I don’t buy that. So I basically feel like the relationship is over and I’ve lost the friend group. I have several mom friends and know the importance of not giving my unsolicited opinion on a topic I can’t speak on, but this felt icky so I threw in my two cents.

So…. AITA?