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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Marco_Polo_NY on 2023-10-05 16:30:54.

I’m (48m) and my girlfriend (51f) I think she’s absolutely amazing inside and out. She has a amazing personality and a stunning body. This issue is she only wants to have sex in the missionary position. We’ve been together for almost a year, and the missionary position is getting really old. I have tried talking to her once before, and she reminded me of how her ex used to treat her. I told her that I love her, and I respect her, and I have always treated her like a lady and that will never change.

Last night after dinner, I brought up the subject again. I was very polite and talked in a soft tone of voice. I explain to her that I have a lot more sexual desires, and I want them to be fulfilled with her. I could see her face getting upset, and I reassured her that I would never do anything to hurt her. She paused and explained to me that she already reiterated that she has no interest in anything but missionary and if that’s not enough then maybe I need to look elsewhere. My response was, are we ending things? She explained to me that if it wasn’t enough then maybe we should end it! I was completely in shock that she wasn’t open minded enough and cared about my needs. I also tried my best to be understanding to her needs, and validate and feelings! Then I asked her if she wants to take a break or be done? She told me that she loved me and she was going to miss me. She thinks we should be done and if time brings us back together then it’s meant to be! I was like wow ok…… I’m lost for words! A part of me is crushed and a part of me is relieved!