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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/mylec7 on 2023-10-05 22:10:05.

I have lived here for over 15 years and have a considerable amount of equity. It’s a cute house, good neighborhood and my payments with insurance and taxes is under 1k a month. My wife says she never felt this was her house, and wants to sell so we can get one together. (Married 5 years) I am reluctant to sell because the housing market is crap and we would be paying almost double for something similar. Also, I see it as a nest egg for when we retire. We can sell it and live off the profits for retirement. I have told her we can make whatever changes she would like in order for her to feel more at home, but she’s not come up with any ideas. So, AITA for not wanting to sell?