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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Ok-Mix-1078 on 2023-10-05 22:50:50.

Me (22f) and my boyfriend(22m) have been together for almost two years. He’s asked for anal since we got together every couple of months which didn’t bother me, but the last 3ish months he’s been asking very frequently. I’m not completely against the idea but I don’t want to try it at this point of my life and I’ve told him that multiple times. I want to be more confident in my own body first and process the sexual trauma I’ve experienced as a kid first, AND I want to do it the right way. Any kind of pain during sex immediately makes me freak out a bit. I’ve told him to stop asking me when we’re having sex or when I’m drunk. Last night we were both drunk and having really fun sex when he asked if he could just stick the tip in. Super big turn off and was almost disgusted with him. This was more of a rant post but any advice would be appreciated.