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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Some_Eye_7848 on 2023-10-05 18:39:45.

I met my boyfriend’s son (13m) two months ago. He’s a great kid and treats my kids (F10 and M11) really nicely, which I’m grateful for. It’s my ex-husband’s week with the kids, so I’m staying at my boyfriend’s place. I found out they have a tradition of watching a horror movie a night in October until Halloween.

His son lies in bed with him but will go to his room when it’s over. Well, last night, they both fell asleep before the movie was over, so I turned it off and tried to fall asleep. It felt weird having a teenager in the bed with us, so I shook my boyfriend awake and asked him to tell his son to go back to his room. He told me he understood and woke up his son, who wasn’t as understanding. He begged to stay but lost the battle and went to his room. I felt like I had messed up whenever he didn’t say “I love you” back to his dad. I understand he was upset, but I don’t feel comfortable sharing a bed with a teenager.

This morning, he wouldn’t talk to me. I assumed my boyfriend told him why he was kicked out, so now he’s pissed at me. My boyfriend and I took off today, so we both went to drop him off at school and like last night, he didn’t respond to his dad saying, “I love you.” he just said bye quietly and got out of the car. Like I said, I felt uncomfortable, but was I right to do it? He’s a teenager and probably doesn’t snuggle with his dad often like that, so I’m afraid I ruined a moment. AITA?