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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/danishviking28 on 2023-10-06 03:47:07.

Ladies and gents I’m looking for feedback…

A good friend of mine (I also work with) has been asking me to work a shift for her so she can go on a vacation with her mom. The date she is asking for is two days after my wedding. She has been invited to my wedding so she is aware I’m getting married. When she asked me I didn’t think much of it aside from no??

But now the more we talk it’s more like “it’s fine I didn’t want to go on vacation anyways” or “well idk if I can go to your wedding or not because I’ll be working you know” (she finishes work at 2pm on the wedding day, the events don’t happen until 5pm all in the same town, and I said she can be late since shes invited to the reception). I booked my vacation for my wedding over a year ago at this point and she didn’t book for vacation until about 3 months ago. She also regularly goes on vacations with her mom…

Am I over reacting for being mad at this? Even my boss and the person doing the schedule are bombarding me about it saying “oh you’re sure you don’t want to work?”… NO I DONT WANT TO WORK I’LL BE GETTING MARRIED!

edit: I should clarify this will be our “honeymoon” we won’t be out of town but we’ve made plans to go to events, spend time with friend and family, etc