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The original was posted on /r/sugarlifestyleforum by /u/spoiledasian on 2023-10-06 03:20:53.

I’ve been in and out of the bowl for about 7 years now, but recently had the absolute worst experience possible. I’ve healed (physically) since then and finally feel comfortable sharing.

I had a POT reach out to me on Seeking asking if I’d like to attend an upcoming concert with him that weekend. My interest was piqued because I was already planning to go with a group of friends. After a little bit of goading, he had finally convinced me to join by purchasing a VIP ticket for me.

I didn’t want our first meet to take place at the concert so we decided to do a M&G the day before. Everything went better than I had expected. He was conventionally attractive, charming, and we got along quite well. Things seemed like they were really looking good for us in terms of compatibility. As the night ended, we walked through our game plan for the concert and said our goodbyes, no red flags in sight.

The night of the concert comes and we meet at the entrance. I introduce him to my friends, and he introduces me to one of his. We grabbed some drinks then maneuvered our way around the event grounds and took in the sights, friends in tow. After some time we decide to make our way to the VIP section, mind you my friends only had GA, but I felt safe as the venue wasn’t big. At this point I’m done with my first drink so he offers to buy me another which I obliged to take. I’ll note that I only had two drinks in the span of about an hour and a half, maybe two.

I remember having fun, dancing and beginning to let loose a little… I subsequently blacked out, almost suddenly. The next thing I know I’m coming to in an ER with a busted lip. I barely remember talking to the nurses that were scurrying in and out of the room, but I do remember the doctor’s snide remark: “Looks like someone took too many drugs”.

From the plethora of tests they ran it was revealed that I had methamphetamines in my system. I was told that I had at some indefinite time gotten into some sort of squabble which prompted someone to punch me in the face. I was then taken to the medical tent. The technicians there later had me admitted to the ER because of my “manic behavior”.

In the morning I saw that the POT had sent me a message while I was in the ER (I had lost my phone amidst all the chaos so I didn’t see it until then) asking me if I was “still alive”. That alone drove me to confront him. I first told him that I had just been discharged from the hospital which he didn’t believe. I demanded to know if he had put anything in my drink, but he insisted that he and his friend had offered me drugs and that I had willingly taken them, so whatever had happened to me was my fault. “You just bolted off into the crowd and left us soooooooo that’s on you”.

I find this hard to believe because:

  1. those actions are totally out of character for me, and
  2. I’ve only taken substances twice in my life, few and far between.

The text asking me if I was alive just seems so uncanny to me too. Also, at no point in the night before the clean blackout do I remember taking anything, or even wanting to for that matter. What I did remember was going to use the restroom and having my POT hold my drink while I did so… unsupervised… I know, I know… cue the Curb Your Enthusiasm theme song, or something of the like.

This happened almost 3 weeks ago… I haven’t left my apartment since. In hindsight I’m glad that I’m still alive and well. Things could’ve ended up much worse for me. That being said, do I regret having gone out that night? Absofuckinglutely. Am I debating whether or not to quit this lifestyle? Well, I know things like this can happen in vanilla dating too, but I won’t lie, yes, naturally.

I went out in hopes of having a great night, maybe releasing some stress, but ended up with a 6k medical bill. I guess I just wanted to share my experience with people who won’t judge me as harshly, or at least I don’t care if you do because you’re just strangers on the internet. It just feels good to be able to release this somewhere, so thanks for reading.