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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Spiritual-Assist6468 on 2023-10-06 15:43:57.

I (28F) am not happy for my little sister (19F) getting married. We don’t have any family left other than a distant uncle who lives across the country and couldn’t care less about us. I have tried to be the best role model I could be for her since we lost our only parent so young, but I feel like I failed. My little sister met this cook at the restaurant she works at and I don’t care what he does for a living, it has nothing to do with that but he’s 39. He is 39 years old and just put a ring on my 19 year old little sister’s finger. I met him once before and I didn’t realize he was that old to be honest, he looks good for his age. But I also didn’t think they would end up together so I didn’t think to press on it. She is constantly dating all these men, probably to make up for her severe daddy issues that I also have but we don’t need to get into that. I feel terrible because my sister was so excited to tell me she’s engaged, and I flipped out on her. I told her how disgusting it is that he is an old man and that she wouldn’t be able to live her life the way she wants to with a guy like that. She left my house crying and won’t answer me, it’s been 2 weeks. AITA?