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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/ilovechickenstew on 2023-10-06 12:31:28.

Been seeing a guy for 1.5 months. We are not officially in a relationship but we have been seeing each other a lot and I really like him and can see us being in a relationship.

He had trouble getting / staying hard the first time we had sex. After that sex has been amazing. I thought it was performance anxiety so didn’t think much of it.

One day I asked him how I can make him come cos we have had sex quite a few times now and he only came twice in total. I wish I hadn’t asked cos that led to him telling me he has ED and is taking medication.

I am fully aware that it’s a medical issue like any other and I feel sympathy for whoever taking meds for it. I just don’t know how I feel about him taking drugs that could have terrible side effects because of me. I heard terrible things like priapism (probably a rare side effect) and I’m worried

Is it even worth asking him to try without meds? Or should I just never speak of it again? I’m aware that we are not official so it’s probably not my place but I’m also glad that he told me about this.

Note we are in our early to mid 30s