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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Original-Guess-6723 on 2023-10-06 18:55:35.

So yesterday was my (20F) brother’s (25M) birthday. I’ll start from the beginning of yesterday. He texted me while i was at work asking if i’d babysit his daughter after his birthday dinner while him and his gf go out and drink. His daughter is 10 months old btw. I said not tonight simply because i had been on my feet working all day and we wouldn’t get done with dinner until late and i wanted to just go home and relax/sleep. I offered to babysit her this weekend instead though. He threw a huge fit about it. Called me childish and selfish and that i should pretty much do whatever he wants since it was his birthday.

Keep in mind, he asks me and my mom if we can babysit her maybe 3-4 times a week atleast. We only say no if we absolutely can’t. I also gave him $50 for his birthday and he got a dinner at cheesecake factory all paid by my parents. And a cake. But called me selfish over being exhausted from working all day and wanting to go home and relax. It didn’t matter to him. Like i said i tried to compromise by offering to watch her this weekend instead.

AITA?