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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Misunderstoodqueen24 on 2023-10-06 20:07:22.

Me (30) my Fiancé (35) which got custody of his (11 year old ) recently and I’m currently in nursing school and I don’t work. I told my fiancé that I don’t want us to have any more children until I get done with school because having a newborn and his non independent child would be rough on me . He think I don’t want to have no more children because his daughter is here now and I did state to him that I’ll be fine with raising one child while I’m in school but not two. He also feels like I can handle it cause I don’t work and just go to school.