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The original was posted on /r/relationship_advice by /u/ThrowRA1223232125 on 2023-10-07 02:33:29.

So, right after sex my bf of a couple of months tells me: “I like having sex with you because when you give me a blow job I’m way less turned on than with my previous girlfriends so I can have sex longer”.

I was lost for words and didn’t say anything to that, and he kept going about how that’s supposed to be a compliment and he didn’t let his previous girls go down on him because that made him so turned on. But he lets me! Yay!

I’m very upset right now, especially because it’s been established since we started dating that I’m not his type physically (he always dated petite blondes with big boobs, I’m a tall thin brunette). I’ve never been an insecure type of person, I love my life and I love how I look. But this comment killed me. I can’t imagine him touching me tomorrow and enjoying it after knowing I’m not as hot to him as his other girlfriends.

Should I bring it up to him or am I being childish? I want to discuss this with him but I also think maybe I should pretend he didn’t say it.