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The original was posted on /r/sugarlifestyleforum by /u/Pitiful-Sherbet-3860 on 2023-10-07 00:13:20.

I started seeing SBs on SA about seven months back, and it was one of the most unique, exciting experiences of my life.

I met some fantastic, gorgeous, exciting girls in SA. It all started with text exchanges on SA, then a phone number exchange. We would meet at some nice bar or restaurant; we would talk, flirt and sometimes would have deep, meaningful conversations and at the end, we would fuck. I have had monthly arrangements a few times, but I felt like a kid in a candy store and got flooded with texts from beautiful young girls ranging from 18 to 26.

One time I had sex with seven different girls on seven consecutive dates. It was crazy but good, as many girls here in SA prefer PPM to monthly allowances, or that’s how they want to start. Well, no complaints from my end.

Things took a turn when I met one girl with whom I had a fantastic time, which ended up in sex, but the next day, she felt guilty and decided not to see me again because she couldn’t see herself making money by being a sugar baby. I got a little obsessed with her for a few days because she was the first one who said No to me, but I moved on as there are plenty of fish in the sea.

My first post on Reddit was about that girl, and I got mixed comments from that post; one of the users texted me personally, and we connected on a much deeper level. I have never met her in person, but we texted for hours and weeks, and texting her was way better than having sex with some of the girls on SA. And that Reddit user opened my eyes about how toxic I am becoming and the adverse side effects of excessive sex. She was brutal with me, and it was like having a free therapy session. She is one of the most beautiful, caring people one could meet. Thanks to Reddit, we will be friends for a long time now.

Returning to my Sugar experience, I again fell into the same pattern: text on SA, exchanged phone numbers, meeting in person, and Bang Bang.

After six months, it started to become boring, and I knew what a girl would ask me, what to answer her, how to make her like me more and that we would have sex for sure. I started to feel this emptiness inside me after sleeping with these girls.

Maybe it’s the energy some of them gave me or some of the girls who shared their real-life experiences. Most of them come from broken fucked up families and had daddy issues. Sex with them is always great, but this feeling afterwards is hard to explain because that’s what I wanted in the beginning: great time, great sex and no attachments. This hollow feeling makes me less excited to see new girls now.

I am thinking of completely exiting from this lifestyle and entering Monk mode. No sex, no meeting with any female for at least six months.

I am curious: has anyone else felt empty and hollow after getting what they wanted in life, I mean in terms of SA and sugar experience?