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The original was posted on /r/relationship_advice by /u/venom_og_ on 2023-10-06 21:51:04.

My partner wants a FFM threesome because this is something he feels he sacrificed when committing to dating me. His previous partners have all been queer and either open relationships or open to threesomes. I don’t think I would be ok in an FFM threesome because I’m not attracted to women and would be uncomfortable watching him with another woman. I told him I thought about it and would be more open to a foursome because I’m into men. When I brought up FMM threesome, his response was the same as mine saying he’s not into men. Is a threesome a considerable part of some relationships? My FMM fantasy has always been just a fantasy, and I don’t feel like I need that. Is this a need for some people? Is this considered a sacrifice because im the first partner he’s had that isn’t into other women? He’s not pressuring me into one, but has made it clear he feels it’s something that was part of his sexual identity that he feels he can’t express now