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The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/woodflizza on 2023-10-07 04:50:46.

I’m turning 35 in 3 months and I have zero experience with women. Wtf went wrong. I just never even tried. I just look in the mirror and I don’t feel like I’m good enough or worthy. I’ve never seen any ‘signals’ from women which confirms to me that what I see in the mirror is true, I am probably just ugly. Is it all in my head?

Since I was 16, I had this idea in my head that “I will start dating girls once I’ve maximized my potential and reached my final potential” and this goal was like basically I was rich, had a nice house, car, perfect physique, bla bla. Nonsense ideology

Just feeling lost. There’s still too many things “wrong” with me. What would you have me do give me some perspective