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The original was posted on /r/relationship_advice by /u/Adorable_Newt7227 on 2023-10-07 05:52:28.

Husband didn’t tell me he was taking Testosterone

My husband (35 M) has just admitted to me (33 F) that he has been injecting testosterone for the past 3+ years. We have a 3 year old child. So he started this before she was born and he says he did it because he wanted to avoid getting covid, yet he is unvaccinated. I don’t really care that he did it, it’s just more of the secrecy thing that is weirding me out. He has frequently had freak outs where I felt like he was being extra, and I feel like this explains these outbursts. We have a close mutual friend that has been doing testosterone and TREN for the past several years, and we would always discuss it and agree that it was silly. But it turns out he was doing testosterone with him. He would also go to another friends house to help him with his injections. I told my husband that it doesn’t make sense to me that he was taking T to help him avoid getting covid, when there is a vaccine for that. I am vaccinated and he was always very against getting vaccinated for some reason. This doesn’t really make sense to me so I just said I would appreciate it if he admitted to me that it was a vanity thing. He got very offended, and said he was the provider and had to do what he had to do to prevent himself from getting sick. I don’t know, I feel like I’m a pretty reasonable person, and he was being influenced by his friends to not tell me. Am I crazy for being upset by this? I just think if you want to avoid getting covid, you would just get vaccinated. What do you think?