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The original was posted on /r/relationship_advice by /u/Flimsy-Yoghurt on 2023-10-07 11:17:43.

I was not planning on losing my virginity that night, one thing just lead to another. He asked if he could put it in “a little bit” and I said “a little bit?” and he said yes and then agreed. He immediately starting going pretty hard and fast. I said ouch and that it hurts and at one point I cried out “ow!” and all he said was “it’s okay it’s okay I’ve got you” but he didn’t stop or check in on me. After he went home I was left with an uneasy feeling and tried to ignore it. I guess I just don’t know if I’m overreacting because I don’t have any experience prior to him. I thought he was an amazing guy but maybe I’m wrong? I’m finding it really hard to process all of my emotions. I care about him a lot.