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The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/Subject_You3151 on 2023-10-07 01:35:23.

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Every relationship I’ve ever had starts off with me and the girl having tons of sex, then 4 months later it almost just kind of fizzles out, like we just lose interest.

I really feel like the sex is part of the reason, jumping in way to quick, doing to much, then getting bored.

Whenever my next relationship is, I want to wait a while before we do anything. However I’ve never even tried to do this in any of my past relationships, we just always jumped straight into it.

Advice on how to start and keep a relationship going without having sex early on?