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The original was posted on /r/relationship_advice by /u/occultra on 2023-10-07 05:03:32.

Tdlr; my cousin got naked in front of the back door to our vacation home when my boyfriend was walking into the house from the back door

CONTEXT; My family goes on yearly trips together. Consists of my two cousins (R+B)… B is younger she is 14 but she is not the one who gets naked, my two aunts, uncle, my mother and I. This year, I could not drive down with them as I had a big test at college. My boyfriend offered to drive me down and take off a few days from work, which my family agreed with because they did not want to single me out. My cousins were okay with him sleeping in the same room as us. For context, the downstairs of the house is our domain. We have a big bedroom, a bathroom at the end of the hallway and the back door that leads to the beach.

Before the incident for context, cousin R was wearing tank tops without bras (which is her normal), but she was pushing out her boobs or stretching where the bottom of her boobs would show. Wore bottoms that showed her ass and would ride up whenever she bent down (convivently now realized always in front of my boyfriend). Even cousin B said something to me about it. However, I didn’t think much about it because R is like my sister. R started demanding my boyfriend to get her charger, or take her to target, or badgering him about why her own boyfriend doesn’t do xyz. Cousin B talked to me about how Cousin R was always just talking to D (my boyfriend) but never really acknowledged us. I just brushed it off saying she’s just trying to get to know him better as this is the first time he’s been really around my family in the almost two years we’ve been dating. Cousin R is usually hanging out with her boyfriend and bails when we ask to hang out, or we go to dinner with my family.

THE INCIDENT; Cousin R, my boyfriend and I went to the beach, swam in the ocean and headed back. R was ahead of us by 15-20 feet. As my boyfriend opens the GLASS DOOR, R took off her bikini top and she already had no bikini bottoms, she goes “Oh No D Look Away!” and giggles and rushes to the bathroom. I am like “what just happened” as I did not see as D was in front of me. R told me “D saw me naked I was changing” and I was like wtf. He promised me he did not see anything. I highly doubt that, but I pulled her aside, asked her what that was about and she got mad at me for “badgering her for an accident”. Now, D has pulled me to the side and told me he does not feel comfortable around her and was avoiding her for the rest of his time (which did not work cause she would sit right next to him or right in front of him).

This was two days ago, but I reached my boiling point tonight. She got annoyed with her mother telling her off for buying 10 shirts, making no room in her suitcase. She threw her headset (the over the ear kind) towards my way which knocked over my brush water, spilling on the painting I was doing which smeared it. I immediately went “seriously are we five years old?” She went off saying it’s always about me that I’m a fucking bitch yada yada. That’s when I brought up her being naked in front of D again. Of course, her mother and my other aunt said I was overreacting and that it was an accident because R started crying and accusing me of lying.

I have to share a bedroom tonight and hotel room with her tomorrow. I don’t know how to go about this. I don’t know if i was just overreacting/looking too much into it. I don’t know if i should just let it go because she is like a sister to me.