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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/khorst27 on 2023-06-23 07:59:02+00:00.

Hello everybody I’m kind of conflicted rn and looking for insights from strangers. My boyfriend (m30) and I (f27) have been together for almost three years. The last 3/4 years we’ve been long distance on different continents cause I went back to uni. We planned for him to move to my country in the fall. Now I’m almost finished with school and there’s a trip planned for four days to a neighbouring country. I’d really want to go, cause it might be the last chance to go with school and my friends there. The problem is, that trip is scheduled a week after my bf would arrive. I asked him and while he doesn’t want to tell me no he’s hurt as I would be putting friends and fun above him. I wouldn’t go on a trip if he’d just come for a visit obviously, cause time would be short. But since he’s coming permanently I feel we have enough time for each other after. So WIBTA if I go on that trip?