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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Illustrious-Egg433 on 2023-06-23 14:43:58+00:00.

My wife and I bought a house a bit over 2 weeks ago and had a move in date set, but the move in date was set back due to the tenants. Our lease was up and where it was only going to be a couple weeks, my sister told us to just come stay at her place. She has a guest room and said it was no big deal and would “save us money”. We have been here 2 weeks (probably will be leaving tonight due to the events today).

Now, in the past 2 weeks my wife and I have purchased so much food it’s unreal. My sister and her husband have not spent a dime on food. We are nearing $900 at this point, which would be completely fine if my sisters husband (my BIL) wasn’t full on feeding his dog AND my dog full plates of food. It’s not things like pizza crusts or stuff like that either. He cut up a full, huge, expensive steak ($60) and gave it to the dogs. I’ve told him to stop giving his dogs food we bought and told him to stop feeding our dog at all because she’s getting fucking fat and we haven’t even been here that long. But every single time I turn my back, he’s feeding the dogs more food. Even going out of his way to dish himself way too much food, just so he can dump the remainder in to the dogs dishes.

Well, my wife is pregnant (23 weeks) and even prior to becoming pregnant her patience was thin when it came to people disrespecting boundaries or taking advantage. Now that she is pregnant, her fuse is very, very small. Where my BIL has already been told multiple times to stop giving those dogs the food we bought and told to stop feeding our dog in general, my wife definitely lost her shit this morning when my BIL went up to our dog (right in front of us) and threw 3 giant slices of breakfast pizza in her dish (we bought 3 breakfast pizzas this morning for $40). My wife went to the kitchen and starts pulling out literally everything we bought and throwing them in to reusable bags. She screamed at my BIL not to touch “her” food when he went to get himself another slice of the pizza. She was well past her limit. And I defended her to the death when BIL got on her case about being a “psycho”. My sister was crying, hysterically, because she hates fighting and “it’s not even a big fucking deal”, when it was a big deal to me and my wife. My sister says I’m an AH for allowing my wife to act like that.