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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/PopeAdrian37th on 2023-06-23 16:21:10+00:00.

My wife is currently a stay at home mom with our daughter. I work from home from 8-5 but go into the office once every other week. At least one weekend every month I like to go out for 3 hours to play Pokémon Go events (usually from 2PM - 5PM). I have also been to two travel events for the game over the last year (both times consisted of being gone 2 days).

My wife insists that it’s not fair that I get to go out and do what I want (loves to cite the travel trips) while she is stuck at home.

I have never told her no to watching our child, but I can’t control that she never makes plans for just herself to go out. I have repeatedly told her if she wants to go out just tell me time and date and I’ll make sure I don’t make any plans, but she doesn’t.

Am I wrong for not making her plans for her?

Edit: As many have asked, I do make time for just us as a couple. We have at least one date night each month where our 6 year old daughter is with a sitter or overnight with grandma. We also do regular family outings, such as LEGOLAND once a month while our passes are still good.