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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Luuri818 on 2023-06-24 02:07:18+00:00.

My (36m) SO (34f) is fairly superstitious while I am not. While house hunting, we found a house that would be perfect for us, but the realtor mentioned to me that one of the previous owners died during a domestic violence incident in the house.

If my SO knew this, she would most likely be against purchasing the house, or at the very least feel uneasy if we were to live in it due to her superstitious beliefs. To me, I couldn’t care less and would think it’s an extremely nonsensible reason for turning down a house that would otherwise be perfect for us.

AITA for keeping this information from her, when I know that this is information she would want to know, and would heavily affect her decision?

Even if I somehow convince her to get the house, I know she would feel uneasy while living in it, so why make her go through that? We have been looking at several places, and this is the only one so far that both of us love. I know that she would be extremely happy with this house if she didn’t know about its past.