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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Jolly-Case93 on 2023-06-24 17:42:23+00:00.

My girlfriend (Sarah - 28F) and I (25F) moved in together about a year ago. We invited my side of the family over for dinner.

My nephew (8M) is a walking tornado. As I suspected, despite me already telling my brother that our place is now packed with fragile objects and decorative items, and that he should keep an eye on his son, my nephew broke a glass statue.

Sarah and I are honestly tired of my nephew’s carelessness around objects in and outside our home. So for the first time, we asked to be paid for the damage done.

My brother is furious and thinks I am being a major AH and I should consider his finances because we’re family. He said he couldn’t afford it. I said I was fine with installments and he still thinks I am an AH. Aita?