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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Throwaway957- on 2023-06-25 09:49:28+00:00.

I (25F) married my husband (27M) last year. For a couple of weeks his brother (23M) has been living with us. My husband allowed him to stay with us till he gets back on his feet, as he’s currently jobless. I really wasn’t too thrilled by the idea, but my husband said he’d stay a month, a month and a half tops till he’s finally able to get a stable job and rent his own place, so I relented.

Ever since he moved in, my BIL has been acting really weird. At first he’d just innocently compliment me and say how lucky his brother is to have married a woman like me. But then he started with stuff like how he’s always been the more attractive brother between the two of them and how he had more experience with women, which is when I started to get a bit uncomfortable around him, but my husband just shrugged it off as his bad sense of humor. Then I caught glimpses of him staring at me like when we were watching a movie or when I was in the kitchen. I even woke up to him staring at me while I was taking a nap on the couch, but he said that he just wanted to wake me up himself in order to ask me if I want coffee. At this point I getting more creeped out by him, especially cause his compliments haven’t stopped and seemed to get more flirty.

But what pushed me over the line was when he literally walked over me in the bathroom while I was taking a shower. I screamed to him to get out and he excused himself and said that he was just looking out for phone, but I frankly I didn’t buy his excuse. I literally locked myself in my room till my husband came home and told him that his brother needed to leave now as he was creeping me out. My husband started coming with excuses for his behavior, that he was socially awkward but didn’t mean any harm. but I wasn’t none of it and started packing my stuff. When my husband asked me what the hell I was doing, I said that if his brother isn’t leaving then I am cause I’m not staying a second longer in the same room as him. My husband tried to stop me from leaving, but eventually I did and now I’m staying with my parents. I ignored my husband’s calls and messaged him that I’m only coming back once he kicked his brother out of our house. My husband messaged that I’m being unreasonable and willing to destroy our marriage just cause BIL “accidentally” walked in on me while I was in the shower.

AITA ?