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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Key-Outside-5907 on 2023-06-25 12:54:55+00:00.

I 23F have been with my fiancé “Ryan” 24M for 4 years.

Ryan has a twin brother “Jack”. Jack is quiet, awkward, extremely scrawny and he kind of scares me. I don’t know what it is, it’s just his demeanour that’s a bit intimidating and I’ve always felt like he doesn’t like me. Ryan’s other siblings clearly do like me, it’s just Jack. He’s recently married (December 2022) and has a wife that I rarely see either.

On Friday Ryan’s family had a gathering, they hadn’t seen everyone together for a while.

We were all sitting on the floor on a sheet eating dinner (in my culture it’s normal, arab-pakistani Muslims who are not traditional, but we are from the UK), and Jack was sitting near me next to his wife.

Keep in mind that Jack has very curly hair up to his upper shoulders. It was in front of his face and I saw a strand of it on the floor so I very politely asked if he should tie it back to prevent it getting into the food.

I don’t know why this got to him, but he didn’t even LOOK at my direction and he said “no”. So I VERY politely said I saw a strand on the floor and I don’t think anyone wants to be getting hair in their teeth. It’s pretty gross. Again, he simply said “no” without looking at me and Ryan told me to be quiet.

After that Jack whispered something to his wife and they sneakily left earlier than they were supposed to??

I would appreciate some insight. AITA?