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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/showmethamoneyyz on 2023-07-18 03:23:17.

Hey again reddit 👋🏾 I’m Jasmine (20F) and my boyfriend who I will call Mike (21M) we have been together for almost a year now. I have met his family and everyone loves me except his mother. We had resently moved into an apartment together and one day Mike expressed how he wanted to have a baby. We later found out that he isn’t able to and he didn’t want to tell his family. So we planned to adopt in the future. One night we where having dinner with his parents , sister and her husband we were all talking and some how grand kids got brought up. His sister was on her 4th baby and asked us when we’re we planning to have kids. I said that we are going to adopt when are stable enough to have kids. His mother had gotten upset and said that she wanted a “real grand child” but that might be a good idea because the baby won’t have my weight. I turned to look at Mike but he acted as if he didn’t hear anything and kept eating. His father tried to change the subject but his mother interrupted him and asked me why didn’t I want to have a baby of my own. She said “it’s not like you are not used to a little extra fat” She started to laugh but no one else laughed. I cleared my throat and told her that Mike wasn’t able to have kids and that she shouldn’t be so quick to talk about someone’s else decisions. Mike broke his silence and asked me to leave. I was confused because he just let her sit here and disrespect me now he wants to say something. He hasn’t been home in a week. w When I told my friends what happened they told me that I should have never put his business out there like that. But my other friend says that they were going to find out anyway AITA for telling his mother the truth?