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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/AITAinebrroom on 2023-06-26 08:16:37+00:00.

I(24M) am seriously anxious about my health and life in general.I go to checkups once a year since I am 17,use the supplements and the products my doctor(a sports physician who is an MD) has recommended,have a dietician and hit up the gym almost daily since I am 16. I also have a symptom diary for my health and well-being+I never eat outside since high school. I bring my food everyday and when I am vacationing,I mostly use airBNBs or aparts so I can cook my own but I mostly don’t go on vacations either so I can maintain my routine. If these routines are distrupted,I feel seriously overwhelmed. I also have a psychiatrist and a therapist because I have severe anxiety and visceral reactions of my routine being interrupted.I work as a data analyst in a government funded institution as my job and studied data science at college.

Last year,my parents forced me to get a roommate(we all 3 own the house and they threatened me to buy my share and kick me out if I didn’t let him) because they thought I was locked too much into my house and as a result my cousin’s boyfriend Roly (25M) moved in. The problem is,he lives a really laid back lifestyle. He is still a party animal (I went to a party once or twice in my life and I hate big gatherings and crowded places),he likes to come home tipsy,him and my cousin are always having their friends over and I can’t do anything but lock the door because my parents are letting them do that. I basically lock my door and hit the dumbbells with noice cancelling headphones. Luckily we both have our separate cooking stations(it is a duplex flat) so the smell and the alcohol doesn’t bother me in the kitchen.

Last week,I heard him come home and then,I heard him lay down on the couch like a sack of potatoes. I got worried and went down and found him unconscious and I couldn’t wake him up so I called the ambulance (we are not in the US,it doesn’t cost a thing here). Then I called his parents telling I found him unconscious and we were taking him to the hospital with the ambulance. Turns out he just had a little much of alcohol and he was heavily sleeping.

My parents,my cousin,my cousin’s parents,my roommate’s parents and my roommate are still berating me for spending everyone’s time+money and no one is currently speaking to me right now and they called my psychiatrist about it. Right now he is also recommending me inpatient time, which is implying that I am clinically insane. I think I am not insane,I am just anxious and I love my routines and I love taking good care of myself. My cousin forced me to post here because he thinks you will give it to my ass. AITA?